Archive for 'Beliefs' Category
Victim Language: Want, Need, Have
15 December 2006[Words: 928, Reading time:Â 4-5 minutes]
The language we speak has a profound impact on our reality. Susan Jeffers, author of “Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway†regularly conducts an experiment in her workshops to demonstrate this. She would have a member of the audience place her arms straight out in front of her, and say […]
Feeling perfect and complete
7 November 2006The title says it all I think. You are complete. You’re enough.
Normally I’m not one for investigating why people have “deficiencies†or issues but I think feelings of being incomplete are bred into us as we grow up. As children we’re developing into adolescents, from adolescents we’re developing into adults, and all the time we’re […]
Does increased confidence lead to isolation?
6 November 2006This morning I had this massive limiting belief realisation that somehow being confident and successful would lead me to isolation, which in a way had led me to being somewhat ashamed of my confidence.
I’d downplay my confidence amongst people I believed to be less confident than me. I think my internal rationalisation was that by […]