Archive for December, 2006
Victim Language: Should
17 December 2006[Words: 883, Reading Time: 4-5 minutes]
“Should†is one of the most destructive words we can use. In virtually all it’s forms it leads to feelings of frustration, anxiety, anger, and resentment.
“I SHOULD HAVEâ€
When looking back at a past experience saying “I should have†is useless at best, destructive to your self esteem at worst. First […]
Victim Language: Want, Need, Have
15 December 2006[Words: 928, Reading time:Â 4-5 minutes]
The language we speak has a profound impact on our reality. Susan Jeffers, author of “Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway†regularly conducts an experiment in her workshops to demonstrate this. She would have a member of the audience place her arms straight out in front of her, and say […]
How to Overcome Jealousy using The Confidence Model
14 December 2006After talking briefly about winning and celebrating the victories and achievements of those around you in my previous post I started to consider how The Confidence Model could be used to overcome jealousy.
What is jealousy? Jealousy really is the fear of loss in the future. Think about the times you’re jealous, when you see another […]